Signs she’s not relationship material

What are the signs that a woman is unsuitable for a relationship?

It’s women who are extremely egocentric. This is basically a plague of modern society. We’re talking about a woman whose whole purpose in existence is to boost her own ego. She lives purely for herself. Her life mottos are things like “you only live once” and “get everything you can out of life.”

Although if you ask her directly what’s most important to her, she’ll say, “Of course, family.” Should we take her word for it? Of course not. We have to see what she actually does in practice.

What does this type of woman really strive for? She wants her girlfriends to envy her. She wants to shop in the most upscale boutiques. She wants to be driven around in a premium car – preferably not in the passenger seat but behind the wheel, meaning her husband (or whoever) buys it for her. She wants to travel abroad constantly, ideally every weekend.

I could list a lot more, but I think you understand the type I’m talking about. It’s this pursuit of the beautiful life. And a woman like this is genuinely convinced that having these resources will make her happy.

I don’t even want to get into how she treats a man as just another resource – a tool she can use to get there. That’s not even the point. Even if she meets a man who can give her all of that, she will still be unhappy. Because it’s an absurd life goal that can never make a person truly happy. And that’s why she ends up taking out all her dissatisfaction on the man who’s by her side.

A woman of this type, of course, invests a lot in herself. She often goes to the gym, gets lip fillers, has plastic surgery – basically does everything her resources allow. As a rule, she has plenty of experience with men. She knows how to make an impression. She can even take the initiative, including approaching you first or provoking you to meet her. In the early stages of your interaction, it may seem like she’s really putting in effort. Of course, she’s just baiting you.

I want to make one clarification right away: I’m describing the exaggerated version. In most cases, things aren’t quite so bad.

But you need to spot these traits in their very early stages and draw conclusions immediately, because these traits will have a negative impact. You won’t be able to change the girl – it’s impossible. She has her own imaginary world that she believes in. She’s not going to destroy it, and you won’t be able to either. It can’t be fixed by raising your value or by taking a strong position in the relationship. We need to think two steps ahead.

Continuing the topic about women who treat life like a game and themselves as the actress. What’s another feature? The feature is that she has a need for emotional resources. In other words, she creates this image of a beautiful life not really for herself, but for everyone around her.

And since there’s a need for emotional resources – mainly male attention, and girlfriends who envy her – she usually dresses quite provocatively. Obviously, for the same purpose – to get attention. She loves being the center of attention. By the way, the boundaries of acceptable behavior are pretty much erased for this type of woman. Which eventually leads to unwanted consequences.

It’s the situation where she turns down 99 men, but if one guy she likes at work starts courting her while she already has a boyfriend, she’ll allow it. And then the whole situation starts to escalate. Her own man will start getting jealous – and with good reason. She, of course, will say, “Why are you jealous over nothing?”

And what I want to emphasize, and emphasize twice: Never invest in a woman.

If you can create the conditions where the woman doesn’t have to work, takes care of the household and raising the children – that’s great, that’s good.

Even if you hold a strong position in the relationship with this kind of woman, she still won’t consider your interests. Her wants and desires will always come first. And the man ends up in a frame where either he has to work himself to death to make her fairy-tale life come true, or she gets offended.

Everything described above is just one type of woman. Overall, if we talk about the criteria for assessing a woman’s suitability for a relationship, there are about 10-12 of them, and they mostly concern her personality traits. This information is extremely important.